There are those days when we women would love nothing more than to curl up under a blanket – stomach cramps, fatigue, mood swings. For a long time, I searched for natural ways to gently support my body during these times. Besides hot water bottles and herbal teas, one plant in particular has become very dear to me: vetiver khamaré or gongoli in West Africa .
How I discovered Khamaré (Vetiver/Gongoli)
Until a few years ago, I had never heard of Khamaré. I only came across it through social media – at a time when I was desperately searching for natural remedies for my feminine well-being . Since I can't take hormonal medications for my premenopausal symptoms for health reasons, I was curious whether traditional medicinal plants could help me.
For a long time, I searched in vain for vetiver roots in Germany . It wasn't until a visit to Cameroon that I finally found some. At the market, I asked a vendor about them, and she enthusiastically told me about the many benefits of this plant. At that moment, I knew: I had to try it.

Khamaré Effects – The Versatile Benefits of Vetiver
In many African and Indian traditions, Khamaré not only an aromatic plant but also a valuable medicinal root for women's well-being. Vetiver to treat women's ailments , for skincare, and for relaxation.
The most well-known benefits of Khamaré (Vetiver/Gongoli):
💛 Support during premenopause and menopause – traditionally used to alleviate menopausal symptoms.
💛 Benefits for the skin – can reduce blemishes and refine the complexion.
💛 Natural intimate care – neutralizes unpleasant odors and promotes freshness.
💛 Soothing and relaxing – vetiver water can relax both body and mind.
💛 Natural aphrodisiac – in many cultures, gongoli is considered a gentle libido stimulant.
These properties make vetiver water or Khamaré tea a true treasure for women who want to naturally boost their well-being.
Khamaré application – various possibilities
Khamaré (vetiver/gongoli) has many uses. Depending on the culture, the root is used in different forms:
- As a drink – Khamaré water : Steeping roots in cold water makes a refreshing beverage.
- As a tea infusion – Vetiver tea : Pour hot water over it, let it steep for 10–12 minutes, drink hot or lukewarm.
- As a bath additive : In some regions, the roots are placed in the bathwater. This promotes relaxation, nourishes the skin, and provides a pleasant feeling of well-being.
- As incense : Dried Khamaré roots can also be burned to cleanse spaces or create a calming atmosphere.
- In aromatherapy – vetiver oil : An essential oil is extracted from the roots, which is popular because of its earthy, calming scent – often used for relaxation or as support during stress.
✨ For me personally, this drink the most beautiful way to integrate Khamaré into my everyday life. It's uncomplicated, soothing, and accompanies me everywhere – whether ice-cold from a chilled bottle in summer or as a calming, warm infusion in winter.
My personal ritual with Khamaré
Especially in summer, Khamaré water my constant companion. In the evening, before going to sleep, I prepare a carafe of fresh water with a few bundles of roots and some lime slices. I let the water steep in the refrigerator overnight. The next morning, I pour it into my cooler bottle – that way, I have a healthy, refreshing drink , providing me with energy and a feeling of lightness. And the best part: a bundle of Khamaré can be reused up to five times before it needs to be replaced. This makes it not only practical but also sustainable .
In winter, I love the tea version: pour hot water over the Khamaré, let it steep for 10-12 minutes, and then enjoy it hot or lukewarm. It warms me, relaxes me, and gives me little moments of comfort.
Conclusion: Why I love Khamaré (Vetiver/Gongoli)
For me, Khamaré is not just a plant, but a piece of natural women's medicine. It's a piece of tradition combined with modern needs. It brings peace, balance, and a sense that Mother Nature knows exactly what we women sometimes need.
Perhaps you too would like to try Khamaré (Vetiver/Gongoli) – whether for your feminine well-being, your skin, or simply as a natural, healthy drink. Or even as a little boost on those days when you need yourself the most 🌸
That's how I do it
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Recipe 1: Khamaré Lemon Water (Summer Version)
Ingredients (for 1 liter):
- 1 small bunch of dried vetiver root (well washed)
- ½ lime or lemon, sliced
- 1 liter of fresh water
- Optional: a few fresh mint leaves
Preparation:
- Clean the vetiver root thoroughly (a quick rinse is sufficient).
- Place in a carafe of water, add lime or lemon slices.
- Cover and let it steep in the refrigerator for at least 4-6 hours (overnight is perfect).
- Drink in small sips throughout the day. Consume within 24 hours.
- Reuse the same bundle of vetiver up to five times.
Recipe 2: Khamaré Tea (Winter Version)
Ingredients (for 1 cup):
- 1 small piece of dried vetiver root
- 250 ml hot water
- Optional: 1-2 slices of fresh lemon or lime
- To taste: a little honey
Preparation:
- Wash the vetiver root thoroughly.
- Place in a cup or pot and pour hot water over it .
- Let it steep for 10–12 minutes.
- Enjoy hot or lukewarm.
- Garnish with lemon and honey if desired.
This tea warms you from the inside, relaxes your stomach and has the same balancing effect as the cold version in summer.

